Hidden Reasons You Haven't Found True Love Yet
Are you single, looking for your one true love, but just unable to find it? Then you should know that there are hidden forces at work when it comes to your love life, forces that are completely unrelated to how you look or how you fill out your online profile, forces that you have to harness and align with if you want to attract true love into your life. Here is a look at some of these mysterious energies.
A negative mindset
Do you have a negative mindset when it comes to romantic love? Do you think that all the good partners are taken? Do you consider yourself unworthy of finding true love? These are sorts of beliefs that you must bring out into the open and shift before you can find ‘the one.’ This is not just about positive thinking; you can’t simply plaster a positive thought over a negative one. The negative thoughts have to be shown the light of day and consciously changed.
Inability to let go of a previous relationship
If you’re still hung up over an ex, it will show when you try to date someone new. Some people tend to put their exes on pedestals, their memories transforming those exes from the fallible creatures that they were into paragons of perfection. Practicing mindfulness can be really helpful if you’re one of these people. The way to let go of the past is to live fully in the present, being aware of whatever is happening now. Learn to move on from heartbreak. It’s not easy and may take some time. But it’s the only way forward if you still want to find true love.
Rushing into sex
If you want a fulfilling, long-term relationship, as opposed to just another hook-up, then don’t rush into having sex with your partner. Sleep with your partner only after you’ve gotten to know them, ensuring that they will still be interested in you the following day. Take your time in getting to know them before getting naked with them. It will prove better for your self-esteem in the long run. If you believe in ‘the one,’ you must be willing to commit to a long-term monogamous relationship. Having this approach may result in some uncomfortable discussions, but they’re worth it if you want to find your one true love.
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